Tuesday, April 24, 2012

2 1/2

A mom from Hank's playgroup sent this along this week and it gave us all a good laugh...

Definition of toddler (according to urban dictionary)
Tiny bipolar humans under the age of 3, who can swing rapidly between endearingly cute antics and screaming, kicking, biting fits of rage. Completely unpredictable and often unintelligible lovable little walking blessings/nightmares disguised as tiny human beings with giant heads. Prone to selective hearing and repeating overheard curse words at inopportune moments. More dangerous when traveling in packs. Evolutionarily speaking, it is ridiculous that humans have the ability to reproduce fast enough to be the parent of more than one toddler at a time.

There must be something about the age 2 1/2-just when I think I am about to lose it from asking Hank the same question 48 times with no response, he'll turn to me and say something ridiculously cute, smart, or witty that makes me realize how much I love that little guy.  Perfect example-just now as I'm trying to write this as Hank "eats" breakfast next to me.  I've asked him at least 5 times to stop putting syrup in his hair ( he calls it his hair gel-and thinks its hilarious of course)-he ignores my requests and then looks at me and says "don't be cross with me mama-I doin my hair" (I'm guessing this came from Thomas-sounds like something those English trains would say).  

Parenting a toddler is an exhausting and challenging task, but he certainly keeps us laughing now that Hank can actually have a conversation with us and give us some insight into whats in that head.  I love most about this age is how Hank is so interested in the world-the most mundane tasks like grocery shopping are an exciting adventure now with Hank.  He loves just doing things with me and his dad, and I know that won't last forever.  I love that I get no less than 50 hugs, kisses, and "I love you moms" a day.  

A photo montage of life with Hank-most of these are taken with my phone because he moves so much and so quickly that I never have time to capture things with my big camera!  

Me: "Hank, what are you doing?" Hank: "eating my toes"
 "Ready to go to Joes" (Trader Joes)-assault rifle and juice ready in case we run into any trouble at Joes.  
 Waiting for Dad to get home from work so he can make a fire to roast marshmallows
 Always excited to be going somewhere-and who doesn't need their Thomas Easter basket with them at all times?
 Learning how to make lemonade with mom
 Trip to the zoo with Andie-these two look like they need to get a room!
 This boy LOVES the water-he's exclaiming here "IT'S SUMMERTIME"
 Very into haircuts now after his dad cut his hair on the porch.  
 Loves his baby sister.  He always wants to know "where's Lulu?"
  

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Lucy Jane 6 weeks old

Good grief! 6 weeks already?  Lucy, or Lulu as Hank loves to call her, just continues to be such a sweet, cuddly, mellow baby.  She's growing like crazy, and at her doctor's visit today we found out that you are exactly the same size to the ounce and inch that Hank was when he was born!  Lucy loves to be held, and is super snuggly; although she is completely content to bounce in her bouncy chair or hang out on the floor with her happy apple.  She gives us "googly eyes" now as she's trying to focus on objects, the first real smiles should be here any day now!  She is already sleeping pretty much through the night-usually a long 7 hour stretch and only up once.  I mean, if all babies were as easy as Lucy, I'd have 5 more :)  Hank is still smitten with his sister-he tells her constantly that he loves her and that she's sooo cute.  He's recently started saying that she's his best friend, which makes me sad cause he used to tell me that!

How you measured up:
Height: 22 inches 39th% (19 inches at birth)
Weight: 8 lbs 14 oz 18th% (6lbs 1 oz at birth)
Head: 15 inches 83rd % (13 inches at birth)

Likes at 6 weeks:
  • Tummy time!  Unlike Hank who would scream bloody murder if he even thought he was about to be put on his tummy, you love it!  You will gladly hang on your tummy for 30 minutes at a time.
  • Your pacifier and sometimes I find you sucking on your fist
  • Grunting!!
  • Being carried like a football on your belly on someone's arm
  • The glow worm
  • Looking in mirrors at yourself or looking at Mr. Happy Apple (a family heirloom)
  • bouncing in your bouncy chair-or any other form of motion
  • sleeping snuggled up against mama
  • laying on your changing table looking out the window
  • the sound of the vacuum cleaner-puts you to sleep immediately
  • bows in your hair (or at least mommy likes to think so)

Dislikes at 6 weeks:
  • Gas-sorry Lulu for sharing this with the world, but you are a gassy baby.  It is just about the only thing that will get you fussing
  • the hiccups 
  • when I swaddle your arms in-you like to have them up above your head when you sleep
  • when you realize you've been left alone sleeping somewhere-you love to cuddle!

One month birthday

"Really mom?" "Do I need to sit up in this crazy chair?"

Being all fancy in my skirt now that I'm 6 weeks old
 The beginnings of a smile??
 Kicked back, chilling out, maxing, relaxing all cool....

Friday, April 13, 2012

Easter Weekend

Some photos of our Easter weekend......

Hank is really into making "funny faces" right now
Since we decided against the double stroller (mostly because Hank has refused to ride in a stroller for nearly a year) Hank now gets lots of rides on dad during our walks.  Surprise, Surprise, now that baby Lucy rides in a stroller, Hank wants to ride also-likely a passing trend.  
The Easter bunny is really creepy if you ask me, but Hank just loves him.  He kept asking how the bunny would get to our house, uhh...a car?  Now that I have an inquisitive 2 year old I'm realizing that the whole easter bunny story is not nearly as well thought out as the Santa thing is.  

On one of many easter egg hunts-note the Thomas easter basket-a favorite from Aunt Susie and Uncle Kevin

Dyeing eggs with dad-I think its been at least 15 years since I've had the old Paas kit out!  Hank loved this project


Baby Lucy during the egg dyeing party

The Easter bunny loot

Hank checking it out, and reading his letter from the bunny
Me and my sweet girl in her easter dress
My precious babies-I just love how Lucy has such an adoring look on her face, like she already looks up to her big brother.  
Lucy's first easter-1 month old

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Welcome Baby Lucy

On March 7th 2012 at 4:07 pm Lucy Jane joined our family.  Unlike her big brother, who was affectionately named the "tank" from day one, she weighed in at a mere 6 lbs 1 oz; although she was 19 1/2 inches long which was rather tall for her early arrival.   She surprised us and decided it was time to come out at 37 weeks along.  As I write this I am still a whole week prior to my actual due date and I still can't quite believe my tiny peanut is already 2 weeks old!  We talked a lot during my pregnancy about how planned a repeat c-section would be, and would it still be exciting given that we were picking her due date and organizing our whole lives around that date?  Well clearly I have learned nothing from my previous birth experience, in that the "plan" is typically out the window in the first 5 minutes.  Of course, we will always remember the surprise on the day of our little princess's arrival.  

The day prior while I was at work I noticed what I thought could be some "leaking fluid" (without getting too graphic); however it only went on for about an hour and since I experienced my water clearly breaking with a splash with Hank I figured I would know if it was my water or not.  I continued with my work day everything seemed fine but in the back of my head I thought maybe I should call the doctor just to be sure.  So on my way home from work that day I left a message on the nurses line to the effect of "I'm sure its nothing, but just wanted to check-in"-I hate calling the doctor with questions cause I always feel silly, and actually, this was the first call I've ever made during both pregnancies to the nurses line so maybe that was indication that my mother's instincts were heightened!   They called me back around 4:00 and agreed that it was likely nothing since I wasn't have any contractions or other signs of labor and since my weekly appointment was the next day anyways they just moved me to first thing in the morning and said to come in the next day.  The next morning, I got up at the usual time, got dressed for work, and texted my co-workers letting them know I'd be a little late since my doctor wanted to see me earlier in the day.  Johnny asked if I wanted him to come to the appointment-I said no cause I was sure it was nothing and there was no need for both of us to be late to work.  I thought about throwing in my hospital bag "just in case" since I had just packed it the weekend before, but again thought that seemed silly and started to focus on all I had to get done that day at work since I was going to be late after the appointment and had a huge list of patient's to see that day.  

I got to my appointment, doctor put me in the stirrups to do the "litmus test" of amniotic fluid.  She took one look at me and said "you're water is broken, you're having a baby today!".  My initial response was "what, no, I have to go to work today" She of course laughed and said you do realize you're 9 months pregnant, and that this baby was coming at some point?  I was instructed to call my boss, call my husband, call whomever I needed to since I was only headed to the hospital (why didn't I bring my bags ?).  No contractions, baby hadn't dropped, but that silly water was broken! Since my water had be broken for at least 24 hours and the risk of infection was high-I was going to have a c-section as soon as possible (which would be at least 8 hours since I ate breakfast, again wasn't thinking I was having a baby today-oops).  The same exact thing happened with Hank-water breaks but no labor starts, so it seems this is just how my body responds during pregnancy.  No surprises with number 3, right?

I was wheeled over to the hospital, by myself to get checked into a room.  Johnny was scrambling trying to get things in order at work, get the nanny and Hank settled, get my bags from home and get back to me at the hospital.  So we sat in a pre-op room all day waiting the required 8 hours after eating before my c-section scheduled at 3:45.  It was actually kind of nice to just lay around in a bed and watch cable TV-both a luxury I never have in my life.  Hank's nanny dropped him off right before I got prepped for surgery and he was not terribly excited about seeing me hooked up to IV's and stuck in a hospital bed-luckily both sets of Grammy and Grampys were available to entertain him ( and take him for his first McDonalds experience).  Right on schedule I got prepped and at 4:07 Lucy Jane came screaming into the world!  Lucy because we liked it (and Hank helped to decide) and Jane after my grandmother who unfortunately passed away a year ago last March.  I love the idea that Lucy truly demonstrates the circle of life in our family.   She had a head full of dark hair and dark eyes-completely opposite from our blond haired blue eyed boy!  Because she was small and a few weeks early, and because of the increased risk of infection she had to go to the nursery for a while, but I did get to nurse her and spend some time with her before she left.  I was taken to my room a few hours later where all the family and of course my big boy, Hank were ready to meet Lucy.  

My recovery was even easier after this c-section, I was up and around and off most pain medication in less than 24 hours.  I was home 3 days later, off all medication and moving around pretty much pain free.  Lucy is so different than Hank was as a baby.  She is content, and happy all the time.  We have yet to hear her cry  for any extended period of time-she'll let out a little yell every once in a while just to remind us that yes she needs to be fed etc.  She is completely happy to sit in her bouncy seat and watch her big brother play and terrorize the house.  She's growing like a weed-at 2 weeks she was quickly approaching 7 lbs and had already grown an inch.  She took to nursing within a day (unlike her  brother who took at least 2 weeks to become a proficient nurser).  I don't know if it is just because she's the second child and I just know what to do with her, or if it is her personality-I suspect some of both, but so far I haven't had that overwhelming feeling that I did adjusting to our first child.  We were all instantly in love with our little Lucy, especially Hank who always wants to help me with her and hold her.  He tells her at least 20 times a day that he loves her.  Johnny and I just keep saying how right it feels for us to be a family of 4.  

Here are some pictures of our first days with Lucy....I think I left the house 3 times during my entire maternity leave with Hank-in her first 2 weeks, Lucy has already been to the zoo to ride the train, been to the playground multiple times, the library, Kroger, the river park to throw rocks, and Ikea :)  She is clearly a busy lady...


















Sunday, February 12, 2012

January Happenings

Typically, January is cold, grey, and miserable resulting in us being cooped up in the house, longing for the days of spring.  However, this year winter has yet to hit in Atlanta for the most part so we've been lucky to have lots and lots of 65 degree days to enjoy the outside.  We're keeping plenty busy enjoying our last few weeks as a family of 3-lots of outside time, feeding the geese, taking hikes, zoo time, playground time, and a trip to the train museum.  As of today, which is actually in February we have at most 5 weeks until BabyGirl's extraction from my uterus.  I will be full term in 3 weeks so really just a month until we should be ready to welcome her into the family.  Her nursery is filling up quickly with adorable pink, purple and floral onesies.  I've been up in the attic pulling down all of our old baby stuff from Hank and still need to sort through all the boxes-nesting is in full swing at the roost! Hank is really into "helping" mommy and daddy at every available opportunity, so he's been helping me fold, unpack, organize baby sister's room.  He is really starting to talk about her all the time-and claims that he "loves her"....we'll see how long that lasts :)  BabySister isn't the only one who got a full room makeover...my big boy is out of the crib and into his big bed-which he loves and actually sleeps better in than the crib.  He loves to show people his "new room", and I am really pleased with how they both turned out.

In other new additions to our house, we finally got around to putting a roof on our deck.  Our deck is miserably hot about 6 months of the year and basically goes unused.  Adding the roof has to be one of the best additions we've done to the house yet!  I haven't gotten around to furnishing the new room yet-but it's like we've added a whole new room onto the house.  Hank loves to "camp" on the deck-and I'm hoping it becomes a great playspace for the kiddoes in the months to come.

Johnny has been crazy busy (aka working every night after a full workday until midnight) getting Ritger & Ritger properties up and running with its first investment property.  Our first tenants moved in February 1st to the "rental house"-and Johnny has officially added landlord to his many hats.   Johnny has spent so much time at the property this month that anytime Hank can't find his dad he tells me "Johnny's at the rental house".  (yes he still refers to his dad exclusively as Johnny-they are on a first name basis).  Hank and I are thrilled to have Johnny back at home in the evenings (especially this 9 month pregnant, overtired mama).  Although, he is over there now responding to a call that " the dryer was shooting sparks when it turned on".....

31 weeks with Baby Girl
So add in preschool open houses and crazy enrollment processes for next fall, the busiest time of year for me at work, a head cold that hit the house and doesn't want to leave, a great baby shower brunch thrown by my wonderful Becky, Valentine's Day activities, and preparations for Johnny's upcoming 30th birthday...and that's been our last 6 weeks in a nutshell....whew..no wonder my back is killing me.

Running on a hike
Feeding goldfish to the geese
                                                 

Playing at the train museum...aka heaven on earth for this little boy

Painting is a favorite activity these days

Hank's big boy room
Baby Sister's nursery
Petting the goats during one of our many trips to the zoo
Our new deck!

33 weeks


Checking things out....



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